The Expression of Anger

 Real Talk: I Used To Be A Ticking Time Bomb 😜

Understanding that it’s okay to feel emotions like anger, guilt, sadness, fear, or envy is a powerful part of your emotional intelligence. These emotions are just as important as feeling joy, peace, and contentment. The real magic is in how you choose to process and move through them.

Let me keep it 100 with you, I used to be a straight-up hot head.

Like… my college line name was Ticking Time Bomb.
And my friends? They called me Little Hulk, 
A. Because I was strong for my size, and
B. Because when I was angry… I’d go green and destroy some ish 😅

It was wild.

On the outside, I was this joyful, high-energy woman. But when was I triggered? Whew. That beast would come out, and let’s just say some expensive phones didn’t survive the journey. I was in my full Naomi Campbell era, okay?! Throwing phones like they were frisbees and storming out of situations without resolution.

But eventually… I got tired.

Tired of the drama.
Tired of feeling misunderstood.
Tired of apologizing for reactions I didn’t yet know how to control.

I knew I had to make a change, not just to live a happy, grounded life, but to finally feel safe inside of myself.

That was the beginning of my healing journey.
That’s when I started choosing sacred tools over survival mode.

And now, I help other women do the same.


Now that I've done the work to calm the hell down and invited the Most-High back into my life, it's been a continued journey to learn how to master emotions. I find myself avoiding expressing anger and feeling bad or guilty to express. No, you can't be angry, Nicole, you have to be happy, or look at the positive side of the situation. There's always a silver lining, and think about the other person and how they feel.
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Sometimes you have to say fuck you! You can be angry, and you need to allow that emotion out! Expectations are motherfletcha! It's between what I expected and what I have. I realize I expect things to happen, and if it doesn't, I get derailed. It's called hidden expectations. 






Expectations can blow situations in a very emotional way! Let go of the unnecessary expectations. 



A great book to read is called Unfuck Yourself 





Chapter 8, nine minutes into this chapter, is what is getting my life on this issue. Chapter 8 " I Expect Nothing And Accept Everything." 

Other things I have been putting in place to keep pushing through this growth were playing gospel music, screaming outside, working out at the gym, running up and down the stairs, Goddess time for sure, and meditating with the featured crystals below. 
Many blessings on your journey, and send some back over here. 💚 Lord knows we all can use the support.

Your lifestyle designer,

Nicole Harry

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Featured Crystal

Read the Healing Properties of Amethyst and Obsidian 
 
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